It's been a while since I organized the Silent Fundraiser we had for our Home Study and adoption expenses. I've wanted to write about what we did to make it happen for a while and I hope to give you some resources to make your function (if you ever need to have one) successful. I did a bunch of research leading up to the event, but nothing really dug in deep and explained, gave resources and advice all in once place. This will be my attempt to do that!
The first thing that I did was look up the kinds of baskets I could make. I found tons of themes and cute ideas. There were some that I wished I could do, but didn't have the money to make it happen. The number one thing we did to make this a complete success was asking for help from friends and family. They stepped in and donated, showed up, invited other people and bought some stuff too! Here are some of the baskets I ended up with:
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| Different Theme of Legos |
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| A Basket Full of Legos |
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| Box of Books with a Reading Buddy |
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| Dog Themed |
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| Starbucks Themed |
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| Spa Themed |
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| Camping & Fishing Theme with Antique Baskets |
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| Family Theme with Chinese New Year Ram |
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| Local Coffee Place "The Corner Perk" |
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| Puzzles Theme |
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| Donated by Local Business "Nour-ish" |
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| Baby Boy Read & Cuddle Theme |
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| Disney Books Read & Cuddle Theme |
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| Farm Read & Cuddle Theme |
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| Baby Read & Cuddle Theme |
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| Christian Children's Books Theme |
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| Woman's Relaxation Theme |
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| Mani/Pedi Kit |
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| Fall Themed Basket |
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| Life by the Sea Theme |
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| Beauty Basket |
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| Antique Ducks in an Antique Basket |
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| Helicopter and Games |
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| Donated Metal Art |
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| Donated Bone China from Treasures of Hope Dongguan, China |
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| Donated Bracelet from "Artware" |
You'll probably notice looking through these pictures that I had quite a lot of children's books. While I'm sure you could ask for donations from friends and family, I actually had heard of something called
Books By the Foot. They are used books and they box them up and send them to you. Now, not all the books I got were in good condition, but I got a box of roughly 100 books for $25 (though, when I checked today they were on sale for $19!). My husband, sister and I had to sort through them and decide which ones to keep and which to toss. There were one or two I kept for myself or my niece, but I tried to let most of them go.
The second thing I did was look for things that were "like new" being sold. I confess, I got a good bit of what I had in there at Goodwill or other thrift stores. Almost all the baskets came from thrift stores, including that antique one that helped those ducks sell for around $400! A basket I got for $2 and ducks my dad found in an abandoned house! Now, I must confess that my family has a slight problem with hoarding, so finding things that were "like new" was not hard for me. My mom buys stuff all the time on sale and it never gets used. This really paid off for the silent auction when my parents donated things to bring their grandbabies home!
The third thing I did was keep an eye out for deals. If something was on sale and would look nice in a basket, I bought it and saved it. We were able to buy things at a cheaper price and therefore could actually make money from it. I also built a lot around what I already had. That camping basket was built around two sleeping bags David and I had bought at another silent auction, opened and never used. We included a lantern my mom had never used, some antique fishing rods my dad had (and we cleaned up), a fly fishing tackle box, and a selfie stick (which is the only thing I actually bought)... because why not?
The last thing I did was the most important. I asked for donations. I expected a lot of "no's" and got a LOT of "yes's!" I went into it with a good attitude and low expectations. I gave everyone I asked a flyer for the silent auction and invited them to come. Even if they couldn't donate, they could come look around! But most people were very willing to donate! Telling small businesses we were adopting and explaining why was enough for most people. I tried to refer people to our blog as much as possible so if they wanted to check on anything they could. My husband's father is a pastor at a church and there are many people that were willing to donate from their businesses. We also knew quite a few people ourselves, neighbors, friends, business associates, and we asked everyone we knew. Some of them said no, but offered other things, some gave gift cards, some gave small items we put into other baskets, some donated entire baskets (pre-made), most of them gave so much I was astonished! I was absolutely blown away by how much kindness we received, how much people gave and how willing they were to be invested in our story of bring children home to a family.
So that's how we got together the items, but that was only the part we were selling. We put together a pasta bar dinner for donations, and were able to set out some donated desserts. The location we had it at was a church reception hall, it was perfect because we had the kitchen to do the food, tables to eat and chat, tables for the auction and even a microphone for announcements (more about this in a minute)! We were able to get it for free, but we had to make sure it was set up in between the events that were taking place there. Everything had to be cleaned up by the next morning for church. I had seen a post on Pinterest that I thought would also be cool, about another couple's silent auction that they had in their home and in their backyard. They had strung up lights, BBQ and blankets out on the lawn. The set up a speaker and microphone and made their announcements from there. I could get on-board with that!
We also had to set up the bidding sheets. This was both the easiest and hardest part of the whole ordeal. Let me tell you from experience, don't wait until the day before the auction to work on this, even if you're not done with all the baskets or items. Editing the file is way easier than having to do it all at once. I used Word to create a bidding sheet, it already had a nice template. I adjusted a few things, threw in our adoption icon and was ready to rock and roll. Here's what I ended up with:
Burgundy Willow Silent Auction Bidding Sheet
Here's some of the set up stuff I created to get you inspired! Use it if you can!
Signs for Silent Auction
Silent Auction Rules
Bidders Information Sheet
Basket Numbers
We were told by
Wikihow that you should start with a minimum bid of 20% of retail. We did a lot of googling to determine what that should be and a lot of estimating. We made a slight mistake of putting a "Buy Now" price. It would have been better if we had just made it bidding - though it only caused one round of confusion, it would have caused less hurt feelings.
We also had something a little special about our silent auction, we had speeches. During the time people were shopping and bidding we had people stand up and talk. Mostly it was us talking as we had over 200 people there and couldn't possibly explain everything they wanted to know about our adoption individually. We spent time detailing our decision, why we felt called and what the steps were from here. We could tell people really enjoyed this facet of the evening as every time there was a speaker, they all came back to sit and listen, and honestly it drew a bit away from the bidding. It didn't end up being a problem because people were so generous about bidding in the first place. But I could see that it probably needed to be timed a little better than it was.
Among the speakers we had a woman whom David's family is close to, speak about her adoption. She explained how she felt being adopted and it was beautiful. None of us really knew the entire story. We also asked a woman from the church who is from Bulgaria (the country we're adopting from) to explain some of the culture and explain the need. She even set up a table to show different pieces of Bulgarian culture. It was wonderful.
One part we did not plan out very well was announcing the winners, and purchasing
during the auction. It ended in people patiently waiting in a long line for us to get our acts together and get them their things! It was embarrassing! We were able to set up a way for them to use credit cards and that was really nice. My brother-in-law had the church's online tithes and donations set up to a special event. I'm sure you could also do that by setting up a few computers and a Funding site. (Ps. If you're finished with your home study I recommend using
AdoptTogether it gives a tax write-off to donors). Our problem with the during-the-auction-purchasing was that we didn't have enough man-power to announce the winners of each basket, someone bringing out the basket and someone taking the money. We were told to pull the basket once the table bidding was done, and place it in the back, but now I kind of wish we had roped off or covered the table, then had someone check the winner by having the person claim it and the worker verifying it was theirs. It would have been a bit smoother.
